"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'll be 25 in less than a month.

gonnamakeachange

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Please tell me I can turn my dating/sex life around and make up for the years I missed! I want to bang some young women, older women, and women my age before I settle down with a quality girl. Can this still be done? Does it matter I only have a little experience?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've always had g/f's and gotten laid, but I didn't fully break out of my beta ways until I found this site when I was hitting 30.

You are a man, not a woman. The clock is on your side. TRUST ME, you have plenty of time.
 

romangod

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gonnamakeachange said:
Please tell me I can turn my dating/sex life around and make up for the years I missed! I want to bang some young women, older women, and women my age before I settle down with a quality girl. Can this still be done? Does it matter I only have a little experience?

No, it can't be done. Actually, it's impossible. :nono:


Cheers!
 

amoka

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You are still not yet qualified to post in this section:trouble:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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piranha45

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amoka said:
You are still not yet qualified to post in this section:trouble:
strangely that seems to have no effect on the women here.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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You need to detach yourself from the past; you surely can't change it, so why dwell it?
Are you complacent feeling the regrets?

What you can do is take the action necessary to prevent future regrets and, more importantly, to actually be happy.

Ignoring the past can be a hard thing to be done, but it will be accomplished once you're progressing to the better future, therefore living a happier present.
By progressing to a better future I an not referring at all of a sudden fvcking girls left and right, but by experiencing all magnitudes of success (girl related or not) and feeling a shift of mentality.

So, yes, go ahead and be great!
 

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don't worry dude. Most girls are looking to settle down with an older guy anyway so you got lots of time (at least a few years). And there are always older women that want that young stud to make their eyes roll back. So get out there and get that pvssy, it's yours for the taking.
 

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You can do it if you set proper goals :D
you probly can do it for another 10 years unless you want to get married
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Can be done. Just how 'inexperienced' are you?
 

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romangod said:
No, it can't be done. Actually, it's impossible. :nono:


Cheers!
I'm not sure he is the right state of mind to appreciate this kind of high brow humor.

Anyway, OP, when I was your age I was thinking about all the years I missed. I kept thinking like that and missed another three. So, fvck the thinking, nothing good ever comes out. And as str8up said, there is time for you.
 

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you can definitely turn it around man! try to find the Double Your Dating DVD with the lil dude in the wheelchair, i dont remember which one it was......thats what flicked the lightswitch in my head, along with a huge text file saved on my computer of 'notes'...seems lame but i read them a few times a week, drilled it in my head and it just made sense of me, it was really like a lightswitch.....you'll get it just dont give up

it's all in your head.....you can be the guy that sucks at dating, or you can be the guy that goes out and has a good time and people are gravitated towards
 

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I hope so guys. I hope to date quite a few women (and sleep with quite a few) before I ever settle down with one girl (if that happens). It just seems like people from age 21-25 dated lots of people and had lots of sex, and I only had just a little.
 

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Dude, I am exactly at the same place as you. I've only been with 1 girl and I'm turning 26 in less than a month. I too feel the need to catch up. It's doable. Change your lifestyle and make it a habit to go after every female opportunity you can. I'm realizing it's a numbers game more than anything.
Don't worry, we're still relatively young at our age. Go for it, no one and nothing can stop you except yourself!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gonnamakeachange

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decentguy said:
Don't worry, we're still relatively young at our age. Go for it, no one and nothing can stop you except yourself!
Nooooo..... next thing I know I'll be the "old" guy.

I need to act now! I want to have some crazy sex with a wild young girl. So I can have satisfaction in my later years 'I done that".
 
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