"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'll be 25 in less than a month.

gonnamakeachange

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Please tell me I can turn my dating/sex life around and make up for the years I missed! I want to bang some young women, older women, and women my age before I settle down with a quality girl. Can this still be done? Does it matter I only have a little experience?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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STR8UP

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I've always had g/f's and gotten laid, but I didn't fully break out of my beta ways until I found this site when I was hitting 30.

You are a man, not a woman. The clock is on your side. TRUST ME, you have plenty of time.
 

romangod

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gonnamakeachange said:
Please tell me I can turn my dating/sex life around and make up for the years I missed! I want to bang some young women, older women, and women my age before I settle down with a quality girl. Can this still be done? Does it matter I only have a little experience?

No, it can't be done. Actually, it's impossible. :nono:


Cheers!
 

amoka

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You are still not yet qualified to post in this section:trouble:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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piranha45

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amoka said:
You are still not yet qualified to post in this section:trouble:
strangely that seems to have no effect on the women here.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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You need to detach yourself from the past; you surely can't change it, so why dwell it?
Are you complacent feeling the regrets?

What you can do is take the action necessary to prevent future regrets and, more importantly, to actually be happy.

Ignoring the past can be a hard thing to be done, but it will be accomplished once you're progressing to the better future, therefore living a happier present.
By progressing to a better future I an not referring at all of a sudden fvcking girls left and right, but by experiencing all magnitudes of success (girl related or not) and feeling a shift of mentality.

So, yes, go ahead and be great!
 

Kal0051

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don't worry dude. Most girls are looking to settle down with an older guy anyway so you got lots of time (at least a few years). And there are always older women that want that young stud to make their eyes roll back. So get out there and get that pvssy, it's yours for the taking.
 

ariet

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You can do it if you set proper goals :D
you probly can do it for another 10 years unless you want to get married
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Smack

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Can be done. Just how 'inexperienced' are you?
 

godofanxiety

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romangod said:
No, it can't be done. Actually, it's impossible. :nono:


Cheers!
I'm not sure he is the right state of mind to appreciate this kind of high brow humor.

Anyway, OP, when I was your age I was thinking about all the years I missed. I kept thinking like that and missed another three. So, fvck the thinking, nothing good ever comes out. And as str8up said, there is time for you.
 

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you can definitely turn it around man! try to find the Double Your Dating DVD with the lil dude in the wheelchair, i dont remember which one it was......thats what flicked the lightswitch in my head, along with a huge text file saved on my computer of 'notes'...seems lame but i read them a few times a week, drilled it in my head and it just made sense of me, it was really like a lightswitch.....you'll get it just dont give up

it's all in your head.....you can be the guy that sucks at dating, or you can be the guy that goes out and has a good time and people are gravitated towards
 

gonnamakeachange

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I hope so guys. I hope to date quite a few women (and sleep with quite a few) before I ever settle down with one girl (if that happens). It just seems like people from age 21-25 dated lots of people and had lots of sex, and I only had just a little.
 

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Dude, I am exactly at the same place as you. I've only been with 1 girl and I'm turning 26 in less than a month. I too feel the need to catch up. It's doable. Change your lifestyle and make it a habit to go after every female opportunity you can. I'm realizing it's a numbers game more than anything.
Don't worry, we're still relatively young at our age. Go for it, no one and nothing can stop you except yourself!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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gonnamakeachange

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decentguy said:
Don't worry, we're still relatively young at our age. Go for it, no one and nothing can stop you except yourself!
Nooooo..... next thing I know I'll be the "old" guy.

I need to act now! I want to have some crazy sex with a wild young girl. So I can have satisfaction in my later years 'I done that".
 
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