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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Ignoring a girls sexual advances

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Last nite i took my girl out for dinner, when we left the restaurant while waiting for a cab (i was a lil too intoxicated to drive), she offered to thank me for dinner and went in for a kiss, so i blatantly ignored it. She kept on trying, and i kept on blatantly ignoring.
cab arrives, get in, and the whole cab ride home (went to her place after) she kept on trying to kiss me, or getting any sort of rise outta me, and i kept on ignoring, she was putting my hand between her legs, sucking on my fingers ect, and i still didnt give in.
We get into her house she takes me into the basement, and literally wraps her legs around me and fvckin attacks me, trying to kiss me, after a few attempts by her, and her biting me a couple times (im into biting for some reason) and grabing my ****, i finally give in. And it seems she was more turned on than ever.

question is: was this smart? does ignoring your girl a lil just increase the interest even more? (her interest in me is pretty high to begin with). Should i continue doing this sometimes?

Have you guys ever tried this?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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no reason, just wanted to try out an see what would happen. Ignoring has the ability to increase interest/sexual levels and i wanted to see how she would react to a guy no giving into pvssy the second it was available, and it just made her want me to take it even more.
 
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Nah man its true, makes her work harder to get your attention, doing more lewd sexual acts. Alot of naturals do this and don't even consciously think about it.

When I try it though, it becomes a mutual ignorance of each other, bwahahaha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think it can definitely work sometimes, but overall I don't like to play stupid games
 
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What you did had more to do with increasing sexual tension than interest level. Sexual tension is always good thing

The distinction is, she's already your girl though and comfortable around you plus you guys have had sex before, so you've got plenty of room to mess around in and emasculate yourself for the hell of it. For girls who don't know you yet, if you ignore them as much as you did this girl, they're gonna auto-reject
 
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