"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ignoring a girls sexual advances

Gustav Yavo

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Last nite i took my girl out for dinner, when we left the restaurant while waiting for a cab (i was a lil too intoxicated to drive), she offered to thank me for dinner and went in for a kiss, so i blatantly ignored it. She kept on trying, and i kept on blatantly ignoring.
cab arrives, get in, and the whole cab ride home (went to her place after) she kept on trying to kiss me, or getting any sort of rise outta me, and i kept on ignoring, she was putting my hand between her legs, sucking on my fingers ect, and i still didnt give in.
We get into her house she takes me into the basement, and literally wraps her legs around me and fvckin attacks me, trying to kiss me, after a few attempts by her, and her biting me a couple times (im into biting for some reason) and grabing my ****, i finally give in. And it seems she was more turned on than ever.

question is: was this smart? does ignoring your girl a lil just increase the interest even more? (her interest in me is pretty high to begin with). Should i continue doing this sometimes?

Have you guys ever tried this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gustav Yavo

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no reason, just wanted to try out an see what would happen. Ignoring has the ability to increase interest/sexual levels and i wanted to see how she would react to a guy no giving into pvssy the second it was available, and it just made her want me to take it even more.
 

LostAndConfused

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Nah man its true, makes her work harder to get your attention, doing more lewd sexual acts. Alot of naturals do this and don't even consciously think about it.

When I try it though, it becomes a mutual ignorance of each other, bwahahaha
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Obsidian

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i think it can definitely work sometimes, but overall I don't like to play stupid games
 

ready123

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What you did had more to do with increasing sexual tension than interest level. Sexual tension is always good thing

The distinction is, she's already your girl though and comfortable around you plus you guys have had sex before, so you've got plenty of room to mess around in and emasculate yourself for the hell of it. For girls who don't know you yet, if you ignore them as much as you did this girl, they're gonna auto-reject
 
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