Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ignoring a girls sexual advances

Gustav Yavo

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Last nite i took my girl out for dinner, when we left the restaurant while waiting for a cab (i was a lil too intoxicated to drive), she offered to thank me for dinner and went in for a kiss, so i blatantly ignored it. She kept on trying, and i kept on blatantly ignoring.
cab arrives, get in, and the whole cab ride home (went to her place after) she kept on trying to kiss me, or getting any sort of rise outta me, and i kept on ignoring, she was putting my hand between her legs, sucking on my fingers ect, and i still didnt give in.
We get into her house she takes me into the basement, and literally wraps her legs around me and fvckin attacks me, trying to kiss me, after a few attempts by her, and her biting me a couple times (im into biting for some reason) and grabing my ****, i finally give in. And it seems she was more turned on than ever.

question is: was this smart? does ignoring your girl a lil just increase the interest even more? (her interest in me is pretty high to begin with). Should i continue doing this sometimes?

Have you guys ever tried this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gustav Yavo

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no reason, just wanted to try out an see what would happen. Ignoring has the ability to increase interest/sexual levels and i wanted to see how she would react to a guy no giving into pvssy the second it was available, and it just made her want me to take it even more.
 

LostAndConfused

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Nah man its true, makes her work harder to get your attention, doing more lewd sexual acts. Alot of naturals do this and don't even consciously think about it.

When I try it though, it becomes a mutual ignorance of each other, bwahahaha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obsidian

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i think it can definitely work sometimes, but overall I don't like to play stupid games
 

ready123

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What you did had more to do with increasing sexual tension than interest level. Sexual tension is always good thing

The distinction is, she's already your girl though and comfortable around you plus you guys have had sex before, so you've got plenty of room to mess around in and emasculate yourself for the hell of it. For girls who don't know you yet, if you ignore them as much as you did this girl, they're gonna auto-reject
 
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