"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ignoring a girls sexual advances

Gustav Yavo

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Last nite i took my girl out for dinner, when we left the restaurant while waiting for a cab (i was a lil too intoxicated to drive), she offered to thank me for dinner and went in for a kiss, so i blatantly ignored it. She kept on trying, and i kept on blatantly ignoring.
cab arrives, get in, and the whole cab ride home (went to her place after) she kept on trying to kiss me, or getting any sort of rise outta me, and i kept on ignoring, she was putting my hand between her legs, sucking on my fingers ect, and i still didnt give in.
We get into her house she takes me into the basement, and literally wraps her legs around me and fvckin attacks me, trying to kiss me, after a few attempts by her, and her biting me a couple times (im into biting for some reason) and grabing my ****, i finally give in. And it seems she was more turned on than ever.

question is: was this smart? does ignoring your girl a lil just increase the interest even more? (her interest in me is pretty high to begin with). Should i continue doing this sometimes?

Have you guys ever tried this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gustav Yavo

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no reason, just wanted to try out an see what would happen. Ignoring has the ability to increase interest/sexual levels and i wanted to see how she would react to a guy no giving into pvssy the second it was available, and it just made her want me to take it even more.
 

LostAndConfused

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Nah man its true, makes her work harder to get your attention, doing more lewd sexual acts. Alot of naturals do this and don't even consciously think about it.

When I try it though, it becomes a mutual ignorance of each other, bwahahaha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obsidian

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i think it can definitely work sometimes, but overall I don't like to play stupid games
 

ready123

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What you did had more to do with increasing sexual tension than interest level. Sexual tension is always good thing

The distinction is, she's already your girl though and comfortable around you plus you guys have had sex before, so you've got plenty of room to mess around in and emasculate yourself for the hell of it. For girls who don't know you yet, if you ignore them as much as you did this girl, they're gonna auto-reject
 
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