"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you're HOT you can get away with anything.

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I was just thinking about this:

Take 'selfies' - an online dating no-no for average people because they make you look friendless and a bit sad UNLESS you are hot. If you are hot it doesn't really matter. In fact people might prefer you to be friendless if you're hot. Less competition.

And so with other things. Approaches online or in real life (unless you're a total tool) really don't matter if you are hot. You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.

See what I'm saying? When you are hot less is definitely more. Which is good news. For me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sylvester the cat said:
You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.
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what you will find is that most of these "hot" guys are naturally ****y and funny it is in their personality already and that when they see an AFC try to do it they know that the AFC is going against their natural personality hence "being a try hard".
 
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If the girl thinks you are hot, you can get away with anything
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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