"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you're HOT you can get away with anything.

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sylvester the cat

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I was just thinking about this:

Take 'selfies' - an online dating no-no for average people because they make you look friendless and a bit sad UNLESS you are hot. If you are hot it doesn't really matter. In fact people might prefer you to be friendless if you're hot. Less competition.

And so with other things. Approaches online or in real life (unless you're a total tool) really don't matter if you are hot. You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.

See what I'm saying? When you are hot less is definitely more. Which is good news. For me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sylvester the cat said:
You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.
what you will find is that most of these "hot" guys are naturally ****y and funny it is in their personality already and that when they see an AFC try to do it they know that the AFC is going against their natural personality hence "being a try hard".
 

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If the girl thinks you are hot, you can get away with anything
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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