"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you're HOT you can get away with anything.

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I was just thinking about this:

Take 'selfies' - an online dating no-no for average people because they make you look friendless and a bit sad UNLESS you are hot. If you are hot it doesn't really matter. In fact people might prefer you to be friendless if you're hot. Less competition.

And so with other things. Approaches online or in real life (unless you're a total tool) really don't matter if you are hot. You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.

See what I'm saying? When you are hot less is definitely more. Which is good news. For me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sylvester the cat said:
You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.
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what you will find is that most of these "hot" guys are naturally ****y and funny it is in their personality already and that when they see an AFC try to do it they know that the AFC is going against their natural personality hence "being a try hard".
 
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If the girl thinks you are hot, you can get away with anything
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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