"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're HOT you can get away with anything.

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sylvester the cat

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I was just thinking about this:

Take 'selfies' - an online dating no-no for average people because they make you look friendless and a bit sad UNLESS you are hot. If you are hot it doesn't really matter. In fact people might prefer you to be friendless if you're hot. Less competition.

And so with other things. Approaches online or in real life (unless you're a total tool) really don't matter if you are hot. You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.

See what I'm saying? When you are hot less is definitely more. Which is good news. For me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sylvester the cat said:
You can get away with just a Hi or Hey whereas the average person might need that '****y/funny' approach which coming from a hot guy might seem a little try hard.
what you will find is that most of these "hot" guys are naturally ****y and funny it is in their personality already and that when they see an AFC try to do it they know that the AFC is going against their natural personality hence "being a try hard".
 

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If the girl thinks you are hot, you can get away with anything
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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