"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you're going to kiss me then kiss me

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So I was out last night. Good night. A little too much to drink but at this point that's what gives me confidence. Anyhow, I meet this chick and we are talking for a while. Not sure exactly how it happened but she kisses me. Little soft kiss. When she did that I stepped back looked at her straight in the eyes and said, "If you're going to kiss me then ****ing kiss me" as I said it I took another step back and she grabs me, pulls me in and lays down the best ****ing kiss I've ever had.

I remembered that line from one of the tips and I can't believe how great it works. I love this site. I'm learning so much and I just started the 8 week deal. I can't wait until I have the confidence to do **** like that all the time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Just a drunken approach.

Don't drink to gain confidence... :rolleyes:



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I didn't mean to say that I drink to gain confidence. I drink cause I like drinking but as a result I get that confidence. Right now I don't have any confidence. I know that. That's why I started the boot camp deal. I was just posting that a tip I read on here worked.
 
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There's nothing wrong with getting confidence when you drink as long as you can have confidence sober as well. I've said things that I would never say without alcohol, it's a good time. (if we weren't drinking I would never say something like "suck my c*ck, but it's definetly happened before with GREAT results) Good tip by the way.
 
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"If you're going to kiss me then kiss me."

Well done. I've used almost those exact same words., with great success.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
 
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Originally posted by Unregistered
It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
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Happened saturday night. We were all out again and came back to my place. :D
 
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