"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you're going to kiss me then kiss me

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So I was out last night. Good night. A little too much to drink but at this point that's what gives me confidence. Anyhow, I meet this chick and we are talking for a while. Not sure exactly how it happened but she kisses me. Little soft kiss. When she did that I stepped back looked at her straight in the eyes and said, "If you're going to kiss me then ****ing kiss me" as I said it I took another step back and she grabs me, pulls me in and lays down the best ****ing kiss I've ever had.

I remembered that line from one of the tips and I can't believe how great it works. I love this site. I'm learning so much and I just started the 8 week deal. I can't wait until I have the confidence to do **** like that all the time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Just a drunken approach.

Don't drink to gain confidence... :rolleyes:



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I didn't mean to say that I drink to gain confidence. I drink cause I like drinking but as a result I get that confidence. Right now I don't have any confidence. I know that. That's why I started the boot camp deal. I was just posting that a tip I read on here worked.
 
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There's nothing wrong with getting confidence when you drink as long as you can have confidence sober as well. I've said things that I would never say without alcohol, it's a good time. (if we weren't drinking I would never say something like "suck my c*ck, but it's definetly happened before with GREAT results) Good tip by the way.
 
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"If you're going to kiss me then kiss me."

Well done. I've used almost those exact same words., with great success.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
 
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Originally posted by Unregistered
It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
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Happened saturday night. We were all out again and came back to my place. :D
 
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