"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you're going to kiss me then kiss me

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So I was out last night. Good night. A little too much to drink but at this point that's what gives me confidence. Anyhow, I meet this chick and we are talking for a while. Not sure exactly how it happened but she kisses me. Little soft kiss. When she did that I stepped back looked at her straight in the eyes and said, "If you're going to kiss me then ****ing kiss me" as I said it I took another step back and she grabs me, pulls me in and lays down the best ****ing kiss I've ever had.

I remembered that line from one of the tips and I can't believe how great it works. I love this site. I'm learning so much and I just started the 8 week deal. I can't wait until I have the confidence to do **** like that all the time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Just a drunken approach.

Don't drink to gain confidence... :rolleyes:



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I didn't mean to say that I drink to gain confidence. I drink cause I like drinking but as a result I get that confidence. Right now I don't have any confidence. I know that. That's why I started the boot camp deal. I was just posting that a tip I read on here worked.
 
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There's nothing wrong with getting confidence when you drink as long as you can have confidence sober as well. I've said things that I would never say without alcohol, it's a good time. (if we weren't drinking I would never say something like "suck my c*ck, but it's definetly happened before with GREAT results) Good tip by the way.
 
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"If you're going to kiss me then kiss me."

Well done. I've used almost those exact same words., with great success.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
 
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Originally posted by Unregistered
It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
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Happened saturday night. We were all out again and came back to my place. :D
 
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