"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you're going to kiss me then kiss me

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So I was out last night. Good night. A little too much to drink but at this point that's what gives me confidence. Anyhow, I meet this chick and we are talking for a while. Not sure exactly how it happened but she kisses me. Little soft kiss. When she did that I stepped back looked at her straight in the eyes and said, "If you're going to kiss me then ****ing kiss me" as I said it I took another step back and she grabs me, pulls me in and lays down the best ****ing kiss I've ever had.

I remembered that line from one of the tips and I can't believe how great it works. I love this site. I'm learning so much and I just started the 8 week deal. I can't wait until I have the confidence to do **** like that all the time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Just a drunken approach.

Don't drink to gain confidence... :rolleyes:



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I didn't mean to say that I drink to gain confidence. I drink cause I like drinking but as a result I get that confidence. Right now I don't have any confidence. I know that. That's why I started the boot camp deal. I was just posting that a tip I read on here worked.
 
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There's nothing wrong with getting confidence when you drink as long as you can have confidence sober as well. I've said things that I would never say without alcohol, it's a good time. (if we weren't drinking I would never say something like "suck my c*ck, but it's definetly happened before with GREAT results) Good tip by the way.
 
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"If you're going to kiss me then kiss me."

Well done. I've used almost those exact same words., with great success.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
 
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Originally posted by Unregistered
It would have actually been cool if you forced her to her knees and unzipped your pants while you said that.
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Happened saturday night. We were all out again and came back to my place. :D
 
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