"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you want to be just friends with a chick

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DJnoob

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and you just want to hang out with her but at the same time you don't want send the signal "i want to bang you or have a relationship with you" Is there like a safe way of doing this???

(i've never really had any female friends due to low self esteem, afcness, etc etc but i want to have em now because i feel better with women now, this is why im asking this question)

Can you DJs give me some opinion, strategy, etc... Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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umm its this simple : treat em like your mates....

dont have to treat girls any different then guys , they arent any special creatures that u have to learn a secret language or a secret handshake to befriend or anything like that ,just be friendly , ask how everythings going and stuff like what u do with guys.... only difference is that they arent as strong as guys so punching em hard in tha arm or stuff like that is a basic no no ....
 
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hey mighty,

I mean, yeah, i want to bang chicks but i need some chick friends too so I can expand my social network. U know my situation man
 
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A girl is qualified to be your friend after you had the *****, or if you'll never have the ***** no matter how many beers you drank.

In any case... just keep flirting with them. Flirting doesn't make kids. There's nothing wrong with it. They won't think you should be in a mental hospital.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You know what is funny. I got emails and phone numbers for chicks I wanted to use as pivots. They don't seem to like when you email them and say you are just looking for a friend. I guess it's a subtle rejection.
 
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DJnoob - yeah i do know the situation. But still better try to bang than getting friends with. Maybe try to date some slutty girls. They will have sex and wont get involved into realtion = make friends with You.
I never really had this problem, im friends with loads of girls, with most of them i speak about sex etc, so if id like to have it, i think they would give me. Im ready to cheat in my LTR any moment.
 
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