"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you want to be just friends with a chick

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DJnoob

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and you just want to hang out with her but at the same time you don't want send the signal "i want to bang you or have a relationship with you" Is there like a safe way of doing this???

(i've never really had any female friends due to low self esteem, afcness, etc etc but i want to have em now because i feel better with women now, this is why im asking this question)

Can you DJs give me some opinion, strategy, etc... Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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umm its this simple : treat em like your mates....

dont have to treat girls any different then guys , they arent any special creatures that u have to learn a secret language or a secret handshake to befriend or anything like that ,just be friendly , ask how everythings going and stuff like what u do with guys.... only difference is that they arent as strong as guys so punching em hard in tha arm or stuff like that is a basic no no ....
 
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hey mighty,

I mean, yeah, i want to bang chicks but i need some chick friends too so I can expand my social network. U know my situation man
 
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A girl is qualified to be your friend after you had the *****, or if you'll never have the ***** no matter how many beers you drank.

In any case... just keep flirting with them. Flirting doesn't make kids. There's nothing wrong with it. They won't think you should be in a mental hospital.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know what is funny. I got emails and phone numbers for chicks I wanted to use as pivots. They don't seem to like when you email them and say you are just looking for a friend. I guess it's a subtle rejection.
 
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DJnoob - yeah i do know the situation. But still better try to bang than getting friends with. Maybe try to date some slutty girls. They will have sex and wont get involved into realtion = make friends with You.
I never really had this problem, im friends with loads of girls, with most of them i speak about sex etc, so if id like to have it, i think they would give me. Im ready to cheat in my LTR any moment.
 
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