“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you want to be just friends with a chick

DJnoob

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and you just want to hang out with her but at the same time you don't want send the signal "i want to bang you or have a relationship with you" Is there like a safe way of doing this???

(i've never really had any female friends due to low self esteem, afcness, etc etc but i want to have em now because i feel better with women now, this is why im asking this question)

Can you DJs give me some opinion, strategy, etc... Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Morphiex

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umm its this simple : treat em like your mates....

dont have to treat girls any different then guys , they arent any special creatures that u have to learn a secret language or a secret handshake to befriend or anything like that ,just be friendly , ask how everythings going and stuff like what u do with guys.... only difference is that they arent as strong as guys so punching em hard in tha arm or stuff like that is a basic no no ....
 

DJnoob

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hey mighty,

I mean, yeah, i want to bang chicks but i need some chick friends too so I can expand my social network. U know my situation man
 

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A girl is qualified to be your friend after you had the *****, or if you'll never have the ***** no matter how many beers you drank.

In any case... just keep flirting with them. Flirting doesn't make kids. There's nothing wrong with it. They won't think you should be in a mental hospital.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ricky

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You know what is funny. I got emails and phone numbers for chicks I wanted to use as pivots. They don't seem to like when you email them and say you are just looking for a friend. I guess it's a subtle rejection.
 

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DJnoob - yeah i do know the situation. But still better try to bang than getting friends with. Maybe try to date some slutty girls. They will have sex and wont get involved into realtion = make friends with You.
I never really had this problem, im friends with loads of girls, with most of them i speak about sex etc, so if id like to have it, i think they would give me. Im ready to cheat in my LTR any moment.
 
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