“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you want to be just friends with a chick

DJnoob

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and you just want to hang out with her but at the same time you don't want send the signal "i want to bang you or have a relationship with you" Is there like a safe way of doing this???

(i've never really had any female friends due to low self esteem, afcness, etc etc but i want to have em now because i feel better with women now, this is why im asking this question)

Can you DJs give me some opinion, strategy, etc... Thanks
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Morphiex

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umm its this simple : treat em like your mates....

dont have to treat girls any different then guys , they arent any special creatures that u have to learn a secret language or a secret handshake to befriend or anything like that ,just be friendly , ask how everythings going and stuff like what u do with guys.... only difference is that they arent as strong as guys so punching em hard in tha arm or stuff like that is a basic no no ....
 

DJnoob

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hey mighty,

I mean, yeah, i want to bang chicks but i need some chick friends too so I can expand my social network. U know my situation man
 

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A girl is qualified to be your friend after you had the *****, or if you'll never have the ***** no matter how many beers you drank.

In any case... just keep flirting with them. Flirting doesn't make kids. There's nothing wrong with it. They won't think you should be in a mental hospital.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You know what is funny. I got emails and phone numbers for chicks I wanted to use as pivots. They don't seem to like when you email them and say you are just looking for a friend. I guess it's a subtle rejection.
 

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DJnoob - yeah i do know the situation. But still better try to bang than getting friends with. Maybe try to date some slutty girls. They will have sex and wont get involved into realtion = make friends with You.
I never really had this problem, im friends with loads of girls, with most of them i speak about sex etc, so if id like to have it, i think they would give me. Im ready to cheat in my LTR any moment.
 
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