scattered_ice
Don Juan
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- Dec 11, 2013
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
definitely a girl.scattered_ice said:I know plenty of guys b!tching about not getting IOI's or full green signals or looking for perfect situations to approach, here's the proof that all men in the west are risk averse porn addict clueless little grey mice in a fvcking box
come and find my vagina if I have one in the first place:-) said:definitely a girl.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Perhaps you just have a vagina for a brain.scattered_ice said:come and find my vagina if I have one in the first place
I agree with you 100 percent.scattered_ice said:I know plenty of guys b!tching about not getting IOI's or full green signals or looking for perfect situations to approach, here's the proof that all men in the west are risk averse porn addict clueless little grey mice in a fvcking box