scattered_ice
Don Juan
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- Dec 11, 2013
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
definitely a girl.scattered_ice said:I know plenty of guys b!tching about not getting IOI's or full green signals or looking for perfect situations to approach, here's the proof that all men in the west are risk averse porn addict clueless little grey mice in a fvcking box
come and find my vagina if I have one in the first place:-) said:definitely a girl.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Perhaps you just have a vagina for a brain.scattered_ice said:come and find my vagina if I have one in the first place
I agree with you 100 percent.scattered_ice said:I know plenty of guys b!tching about not getting IOI's or full green signals or looking for perfect situations to approach, here's the proof that all men in the west are risk averse porn addict clueless little grey mice in a fvcking box