scattered_ice
Don Juan
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
definitely a girl.scattered_ice said:I know plenty of guys b!tching about not getting IOI's or full green signals or looking for perfect situations to approach, here's the proof that all men in the west are risk averse porn addict clueless little grey mice in a fvcking box
come and find my vagina if I have one in the first place:-) said:definitely a girl.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Perhaps you just have a vagina for a brain.scattered_ice said:come and find my vagina if I have one in the first place
I agree with you 100 percent.scattered_ice said:I know plenty of guys b!tching about not getting IOI's or full green signals or looking for perfect situations to approach, here's the proof that all men in the west are risk averse porn addict clueless little grey mice in a fvcking box