scattered_ice
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if you think that girls have it easier you should watch this
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
scattered_ice
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I know plenty of guys b!tching about not getting IOI's or full green signals or looking for perfect situations to approach, here's the proof that all men in the west are risk averse porn addict clueless little grey mice in a fvcking box
scattered_ice
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come and find my vagina if I have one in the first place:-) said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bokanovsky
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Perhaps you just have a vagina for a brain.scattered_ice said:
Jair213
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I agree with you 100 percent.scattered_ice said:
Porn is not an natural act of sexual stimulation. This is fvcking up dude's starting from there late teens. Excessive masturbation + porn = men turning in to beta phaggots, numb to reality.
There's a difference between guys that masturbate once in a while and watch porn once in a while. But the dude's that are flooding there brains with this stuff everyday are fvcking there brains up completely, and messing up there testosterone levels.(and we all know watt pook had to say about T levels) . Its watt makes them socially awkward and puzzy's with no drive around women. You put off a weird vibe, and people, woman pick up on it. Almost making you seem like a creep.
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Girls a creep what more can be said. There was nothing genuine about her offer, at best came across as a prankster or maybe looking for more work.