"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you start to notice her interest level go down
- Thread starter sosilky
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ready123
Master Don Juan
the usual coplaining about things she normaly wouldn't. less x's and o's and smiley faces on IM. less invittaions to come over. etc. etc. she'll then say that I'm being a sensi pants when i ask about these things but i'm learning you can't talk logically with girls about this tuff.ready123 said:what do you think are some signs? make an educated guess based on your past experience
so what are things that can be done to raise the interest again? what signs have you seen in your experiences?
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
Seriously...the only way to really make her regain interest level is to pull back and not see her as much...how many times a week do you see her now?sosilky said:the usual coplaining about things she normaly wouldn't. less x's and o's and smiley faces on IM. less invittaions to come over. etc. etc. she'll then say that I'm being a sensi pants when i ask about these things but i'm learning you can't talk logically with girls about this tuff.
so what are things that can be done to raise the interest again? what signs have you seen in your experiences?
gray_fox_9 said:Seriously...the only way to really make her regain interest level is to pull back and not see her as much...how many times a week do you see her now?
yeah thats what i thought we were seeing eachother allot so i pulled back. but then we had a falling out which is a whole nother story. anythinmg esle besides puling back?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Pull back, give her her chance to miss your fantastic company.
Remember:
The harder you chase, the faster you lose.
WesCottII said:If you notice her interest going down, it's probably because you failed to make a move, wether asking her out, or kissing her.
Pull back, give her her chance to miss your fantastic company.
Remember:
The harder you chase, the faster you lose.
LoL we were a bit further along then that but thanks
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.