"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SharinganUser

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then you are a failure as a human being. It's as simple as that. Anyone who can't figure that out needs to take a long look in the mirror.

It's laughable that anyone would buy into an idea that they should settle for chicks that treat them as a meal ticket and a green card. And that's just the tip of the iceberg.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Htienvu

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Marry who the hell you fall for that makes a good wife. Foreigners or Aliens.
 

PapiChulo

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It can even be worse. I know a guy who has a "gf" in the philipines with whom he is in contact through the Internet. I am not sure even if he ever went to see her, but get this- he sends money to her to help out. That's really said.
 

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Get laid can be done locally no problem, but I would marry a foreign chick if she's wifey material. I have seen success stories of how dedicated and loyal these wives are. Of course there are bad ones too, but is still better than the wild "me generation" girls here.
 

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PapiChulo said:
It can even be worse. I know a guy who has a "gf" in the philipines with whom he is in contact through the Internet. I am not sure even if he ever went to see her, but get this- he sends money to her to help out. That's really said.
Your friend is being scammed. It's like a competition for some of those women over there. They meet up with their friends to go shopping and they compare who got how much and from how many guys. I would bet that your buddies "gf" has a local man, and several other guys whom send her money.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alex DeLarge

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Getting laid in America seems pretty fvcking easy dude. If everyone on here just forced themselves into the situation, they could get it done.

Marrying a woman in America.. Now that seems like a nightmare lol. Don't get me wrong, there are good women in this country but there is a huge lack of respect toward men in our culture as well. Feminist ideals and demonization of "patriarchy" in our culture also lead American men of today down the "What the hell do I do?" path. Which is how a lot of us come here to begin with.
 

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I certainly wouldn't marry a foreigner just to be a meal ticket, but I must say that I've always found foreign women to be more attractive, on the whole. I enjoy the chance to learn something new.
 
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