"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you have to marry a foreigner just to get laid...

SharinganUser

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then you are a failure as a human being. It's as simple as that. Anyone who can't figure that out needs to take a long look in the mirror.

It's laughable that anyone would buy into an idea that they should settle for chicks that treat them as a meal ticket and a green card. And that's just the tip of the iceberg.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Htienvu

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Marry who the hell you fall for that makes a good wife. Foreigners or Aliens.
 

PapiChulo

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It can even be worse. I know a guy who has a "gf" in the philipines with whom he is in contact through the Internet. I am not sure even if he ever went to see her, but get this- he sends money to her to help out. That's really said.
 

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Get laid can be done locally no problem, but I would marry a foreign chick if she's wifey material. I have seen success stories of how dedicated and loyal these wives are. Of course there are bad ones too, but is still better than the wild "me generation" girls here.
 

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PapiChulo said:
It can even be worse. I know a guy who has a "gf" in the philipines with whom he is in contact through the Internet. I am not sure even if he ever went to see her, but get this- he sends money to her to help out. That's really said.
Your friend is being scammed. It's like a competition for some of those women over there. They meet up with their friends to go shopping and they compare who got how much and from how many guys. I would bet that your buddies "gf" has a local man, and several other guys whom send her money.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting laid in America seems pretty fvcking easy dude. If everyone on here just forced themselves into the situation, they could get it done.

Marrying a woman in America.. Now that seems like a nightmare lol. Don't get me wrong, there are good women in this country but there is a huge lack of respect toward men in our culture as well. Feminist ideals and demonization of "patriarchy" in our culture also lead American men of today down the "What the hell do I do?" path. Which is how a lot of us come here to begin with.
 

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I certainly wouldn't marry a foreigner just to be a meal ticket, but I must say that I've always found foreign women to be more attractive, on the whole. I enjoy the chance to learn something new.
 
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