"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you have to marry a foreigner just to get laid...

SharinganUser

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then you are a failure as a human being. It's as simple as that. Anyone who can't figure that out needs to take a long look in the mirror.

It's laughable that anyone would buy into an idea that they should settle for chicks that treat them as a meal ticket and a green card. And that's just the tip of the iceberg.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Htienvu

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Marry who the hell you fall for that makes a good wife. Foreigners or Aliens.
 

PapiChulo

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It can even be worse. I know a guy who has a "gf" in the philipines with whom he is in contact through the Internet. I am not sure even if he ever went to see her, but get this- he sends money to her to help out. That's really said.
 

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Get laid can be done locally no problem, but I would marry a foreign chick if she's wifey material. I have seen success stories of how dedicated and loyal these wives are. Of course there are bad ones too, but is still better than the wild "me generation" girls here.
 

SharinganUser

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PapiChulo said:
It can even be worse. I know a guy who has a "gf" in the philipines with whom he is in contact through the Internet. I am not sure even if he ever went to see her, but get this- he sends money to her to help out. That's really said.
Your friend is being scammed. It's like a competition for some of those women over there. They meet up with their friends to go shopping and they compare who got how much and from how many guys. I would bet that your buddies "gf" has a local man, and several other guys whom send her money.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alex DeLarge

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Getting laid in America seems pretty fvcking easy dude. If everyone on here just forced themselves into the situation, they could get it done.

Marrying a woman in America.. Now that seems like a nightmare lol. Don't get me wrong, there are good women in this country but there is a huge lack of respect toward men in our culture as well. Feminist ideals and demonization of "patriarchy" in our culture also lead American men of today down the "What the hell do I do?" path. Which is how a lot of us come here to begin with.
 

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I certainly wouldn't marry a foreigner just to be a meal ticket, but I must say that I've always found foreign women to be more attractive, on the whole. I enjoy the chance to learn something new.
 
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