"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you had to choose one tip of your own
- Thread starter crissco2
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Atom Smasher
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kingsam
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dude i aint always on this forum, i just like to get info for future reference. Also, i do go out, always flirt when im out, at work....so im getting out a lot, im just asking for some info..whats wrong with that? absolutely nothing.S.U.R.F. said:
zekko
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RSD is definitely not all routine, but you're right the people there ride the mods di*cks all day. I would suggest giving it another chance, they have some good stuff.
Dude, that's his tip. To get off this forum. And a darn good one it is.
Alright ill give it another shot. Ive read some of your posts around here and you seem like a very stand up guy.zekko said:
lol..Yea I know thats his tip, ive heard it before. I love this forum though, also coming up with some new gaming ideas I can use. Plus this place is also more like a close nit family. But yea he def is right though.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
there are principles and a few basic tactics - but RSD grows you as a person (inner game)
you obv. havent seen MM/others they ARE ALL routines - you create a shell of magic tricks that mask a weak person inside...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
zekko
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I almost can't believe Mystery Method actually worked, but apparently it did.
It's all fake, and seemingly so transparent.
Unless you're just wanting to trick some girl into sleeping with you, I don't see what the appeal is. I guess that IS what it's for though, and I have definitely had friends who have successfully used lies to get women. It's just not my style, I guess.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
people gotta reemmber that mystery is a magician too so he already had a kinda vibe before all the PUA stuff started...zekko said:
its worht lokoing over MM for background understanding but i got the impression that MM would work on "cheap/dumb club girls"
and what happens when you run out of canned lines/routines/tricks...uh oh!
i was the the RSD hotseat even the other day... the amazing thing was that it wa made really easy - the guys were just themselves . but "themselves" was VERY strong maculine + cool
the examples we were shown had guys picking up girls in 5-15 minutes...sweet...and often kissing within 30 seconds ...being phsical immediately....really inspiring stuff
kingsam
Master Don Juan
yes , thats why i said ....the natural direction for a "DJ", ... if you use this site as a good foundation/grounding for personal growth see what you can do wiht that - then when progress is slowing take your game to a even higher level with them (rsd)crissco2 said:
(you would likely gain more going to them after some previous self improvement (eg from this site) than by starting off at rsd straight from AFCdom)
their inner game stuff goes VERY deep, a hell of a lot deeper than here, but its kinda "advanced" (hard to explain so i wont)
Exhumed
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And by the way kingsam, what do you consider the best RSD product? What should I watch/listen to next?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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-Work on yourself, before you work on a women.
Too much thinking and re-thinking clouds the mind and reduces spontaneity...
No mind, no problem - too much mind, too many problems - that's the Zen of DJing in a nutshell...