"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If you had to choose one tip of your own
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Atom Smasher
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kingsam
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dude i aint always on this forum, i just like to get info for future reference. Also, i do go out, always flirt when im out, at work....so im getting out a lot, im just asking for some info..whats wrong with that? absolutely nothing.S.U.R.F. said:
zekko
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RSD is definitely not all routine, but you're right the people there ride the mods di*cks all day. I would suggest giving it another chance, they have some good stuff.
Dude, that's his tip. To get off this forum. And a darn good one it is.
Alright ill give it another shot. Ive read some of your posts around here and you seem like a very stand up guy.zekko said:
lol..Yea I know thats his tip, ive heard it before. I love this forum though, also coming up with some new gaming ideas I can use. Plus this place is also more like a close nit family. But yea he def is right though.
kingsam
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there are principles and a few basic tactics - but RSD grows you as a person (inner game)
you obv. havent seen MM/others they ARE ALL routines - you create a shell of magic tricks that mask a weak person inside...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zekko
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I almost can't believe Mystery Method actually worked, but apparently it did.
It's all fake, and seemingly so transparent.
Unless you're just wanting to trick some girl into sleeping with you, I don't see what the appeal is. I guess that IS what it's for though, and I have definitely had friends who have successfully used lies to get women. It's just not my style, I guess.
kingsam
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people gotta reemmber that mystery is a magician too so he already had a kinda vibe before all the PUA stuff started...zekko said:
its worht lokoing over MM for background understanding but i got the impression that MM would work on "cheap/dumb club girls"
and what happens when you run out of canned lines/routines/tricks...uh oh!
i was the the RSD hotseat even the other day... the amazing thing was that it wa made really easy - the guys were just themselves . but "themselves" was VERY strong maculine + cool
the examples we were shown had guys picking up girls in 5-15 minutes...sweet...and often kissing within 30 seconds ...being phsical immediately....really inspiring stuff
kingsam
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yes , thats why i said ....the natural direction for a "DJ", ... if you use this site as a good foundation/grounding for personal growth see what you can do wiht that - then when progress is slowing take your game to a even higher level with them (rsd)crissco2 said:
(you would likely gain more going to them after some previous self improvement (eg from this site) than by starting off at rsd straight from AFCdom)
their inner game stuff goes VERY deep, a hell of a lot deeper than here, but its kinda "advanced" (hard to explain so i wont)
Exhumed
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And by the way kingsam, what do you consider the best RSD product? What should I watch/listen to next?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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-Work on yourself, before you work on a women.
Too much thinking and re-thinking clouds the mind and reduces spontaneity...
No mind, no problem - too much mind, too many problems - that's the Zen of DJing in a nutshell...