"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you had to choose one tip of your own
- Thread starter crissco2
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Atom Smasher
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kingsam
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dude i aint always on this forum, i just like to get info for future reference. Also, i do go out, always flirt when im out, at work....so im getting out a lot, im just asking for some info..whats wrong with that? absolutely nothing.S.U.R.F. said:
zekko
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RSD is definitely not all routine, but you're right the people there ride the mods di*cks all day. I would suggest giving it another chance, they have some good stuff.
Dude, that's his tip. To get off this forum. And a darn good one it is.
Alright ill give it another shot. Ive read some of your posts around here and you seem like a very stand up guy.zekko said:
lol..Yea I know thats his tip, ive heard it before. I love this forum though, also coming up with some new gaming ideas I can use. Plus this place is also more like a close nit family. But yea he def is right though.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
there are principles and a few basic tactics - but RSD grows you as a person (inner game)
you obv. havent seen MM/others they ARE ALL routines - you create a shell of magic tricks that mask a weak person inside...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
zekko
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I almost can't believe Mystery Method actually worked, but apparently it did.
It's all fake, and seemingly so transparent.
Unless you're just wanting to trick some girl into sleeping with you, I don't see what the appeal is. I guess that IS what it's for though, and I have definitely had friends who have successfully used lies to get women. It's just not my style, I guess.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
people gotta reemmber that mystery is a magician too so he already had a kinda vibe before all the PUA stuff started...zekko said:
its worht lokoing over MM for background understanding but i got the impression that MM would work on "cheap/dumb club girls"
and what happens when you run out of canned lines/routines/tricks...uh oh!
i was the the RSD hotseat even the other day... the amazing thing was that it wa made really easy - the guys were just themselves . but "themselves" was VERY strong maculine + cool
the examples we were shown had guys picking up girls in 5-15 minutes...sweet...and often kissing within 30 seconds ...being phsical immediately....really inspiring stuff
kingsam
Master Don Juan
yes , thats why i said ....the natural direction for a "DJ", ... if you use this site as a good foundation/grounding for personal growth see what you can do wiht that - then when progress is slowing take your game to a even higher level with them (rsd)crissco2 said:
(you would likely gain more going to them after some previous self improvement (eg from this site) than by starting off at rsd straight from AFCdom)
their inner game stuff goes VERY deep, a hell of a lot deeper than here, but its kinda "advanced" (hard to explain so i wont)
Exhumed
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And by the way kingsam, what do you consider the best RSD product? What should I watch/listen to next?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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-Work on yourself, before you work on a women.
Too much thinking and re-thinking clouds the mind and reduces spontaneity...
No mind, no problem - too much mind, too many problems - that's the Zen of DJing in a nutshell...