"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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loohozer

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is that just being in the friend zone or just to see if you are a desperate chump just to see if you would actually go?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Since you see yourself enough of a loser to use the username "loohozer", then probably yes.
 

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loohozer check the last link in my sig (deals with this type of situation).

Basically to keep it simple and not to complicate your life and become confused don't agree to "hang out" with a romantic interest + her friends UNTIL your status with her is somewhat defined.

If shes your gf then it's fine, if you kissed her then it's fine, if you banged her then it's fine. If you are barely working your game on her and haven't even kissed her yet I would stay away. Make it a point with this girl and with all future girls that if they want to use a part of your time it just needs to be the two of you together. Send the message that you are nobody's little toy and that you're a possible romantic partner not a hangout buddy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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f283000 said:
loohozer check the last link in my sig (deals with this type of situation).

Basically to keep it simple and not to complicate your life and become confused don't agree to "hang out" with a romantic interest + her friends UNTIL your status with her is somewhat defined.

If shes your gf then it's fine, if you kissed her then it's fine, if you banged her then it's fine. If you are barely working your game on her and haven't even kissed her yet I would stay away. Make it a point with this girl and with all future girls that if they want to use a part of your time it just needs to be the two of you together. Send the message that you are nobody's little toy and that you're a possible romantic partner not a hangout buddy.
ahh cool thanks man. She was just some girl who i started working with. Thanks!
 

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loohozer said:
ahh cool thanks man. She was just some girl who i started working with. Thanks!
Don't go out with chicks you work with unless you are sure it is going to be a LTR! chances are, you should not go out with them at all!
 
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