"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you get invited to a chicks house with her friend in there

loohozer

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is that just being in the friend zone or just to see if you are a desperate chump just to see if you would actually go?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Since you see yourself enough of a loser to use the username "loohozer", then probably yes.
 

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loohozer check the last link in my sig (deals with this type of situation).

Basically to keep it simple and not to complicate your life and become confused don't agree to "hang out" with a romantic interest + her friends UNTIL your status with her is somewhat defined.

If shes your gf then it's fine, if you kissed her then it's fine, if you banged her then it's fine. If you are barely working your game on her and haven't even kissed her yet I would stay away. Make it a point with this girl and with all future girls that if they want to use a part of your time it just needs to be the two of you together. Send the message that you are nobody's little toy and that you're a possible romantic partner not a hangout buddy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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f283000 said:
loohozer check the last link in my sig (deals with this type of situation).

Basically to keep it simple and not to complicate your life and become confused don't agree to "hang out" with a romantic interest + her friends UNTIL your status with her is somewhat defined.

If shes your gf then it's fine, if you kissed her then it's fine, if you banged her then it's fine. If you are barely working your game on her and haven't even kissed her yet I would stay away. Make it a point with this girl and with all future girls that if they want to use a part of your time it just needs to be the two of you together. Send the message that you are nobody's little toy and that you're a possible romantic partner not a hangout buddy.
ahh cool thanks man. She was just some girl who i started working with. Thanks!
 

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loohozer said:
ahh cool thanks man. She was just some girl who i started working with. Thanks!
Don't go out with chicks you work with unless you are sure it is going to be a LTR! chances are, you should not go out with them at all!
 
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