El Payaso
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Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
your a piece of garbageEl Payaso said:Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
**** you *******AttackFormation said:I always thought the idiots who don't understand this deserve to be duped...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threadsKingBeef said:GOOD POST... Even I at times have to remind myself how average these women do look like when the makeup comes off. You can't put a female on a pedestal when she needs cosmetic help to make look better than what she really is. MEN DON'T NEED MAKEUP, thus we are the prize...
loldjgirl said:LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threads
Men are blessed in that aspect that they require no make up, however you have the downfall of having a hairy face that you occasionaly have to shave unless your into this current trend of growing a beard which in my eyes I don't find attractive. Women in general don't need make up, however the media, society and men have made it so women have to wear it otherwise we don't look as "crash hot".....again another social pressure that we have to oblige by. Some girls may look prettier with make up but its really pointless to cake your face with it because its a fake image you put out and guys are going to see your make up less face in the morning after a bang anyway......hence why I don't wear a lot or bow to social pressure just to make more of an impression.
I think the underying problem here is men put themselves too much on a pedestal when they have just as many imperfections as women. Pathetic gender attack right here
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.zekko said:Also, this article just talks about the face. Men are also fascinated with women's naked bodies. And there's no make up there.
I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.AttackFormation said:Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.
Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"zekko said:I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.
Or they may say bothAttackFormation said:Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.