El Payaso
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Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
your a piece of garbageEl Payaso said:Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
**** you *******AttackFormation said:I always thought the idiots who don't understand this deserve to be duped...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threadsKingBeef said:GOOD POST... Even I at times have to remind myself how average these women do look like when the makeup comes off. You can't put a female on a pedestal when she needs cosmetic help to make look better than what she really is. MEN DON'T NEED MAKEUP, thus we are the prize...
loldjgirl said:LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threads
Men are blessed in that aspect that they require no make up, however you have the downfall of having a hairy face that you occasionaly have to shave unless your into this current trend of growing a beard which in my eyes I don't find attractive. Women in general don't need make up, however the media, society and men have made it so women have to wear it otherwise we don't look as "crash hot".....again another social pressure that we have to oblige by. Some girls may look prettier with make up but its really pointless to cake your face with it because its a fake image you put out and guys are going to see your make up less face in the morning after a bang anyway......hence why I don't wear a lot or bow to social pressure just to make more of an impression.
I think the underying problem here is men put themselves too much on a pedestal when they have just as many imperfections as women. Pathetic gender attack right here
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.zekko said:Also, this article just talks about the face. Men are also fascinated with women's naked bodies. And there's no make up there.
I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.AttackFormation said:Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.
Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"zekko said:I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.
Or they may say bothAttackFormation said:Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"![]()
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.