El Payaso
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Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
your a piece of garbageEl Payaso said:Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
**** you *******AttackFormation said:I always thought the idiots who don't understand this deserve to be duped...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threadsKingBeef said:GOOD POST... Even I at times have to remind myself how average these women do look like when the makeup comes off. You can't put a female on a pedestal when she needs cosmetic help to make look better than what she really is. MEN DON'T NEED MAKEUP, thus we are the prize...
loldjgirl said:LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threads
Men are blessed in that aspect that they require no make up, however you have the downfall of having a hairy face that you occasionaly have to shave unless your into this current trend of growing a beard which in my eyes I don't find attractive. Women in general don't need make up, however the media, society and men have made it so women have to wear it otherwise we don't look as "crash hot".....again another social pressure that we have to oblige by. Some girls may look prettier with make up but its really pointless to cake your face with it because its a fake image you put out and guys are going to see your make up less face in the morning after a bang anyway......hence why I don't wear a lot or bow to social pressure just to make more of an impression.
I think the underying problem here is men put themselves too much on a pedestal when they have just as many imperfections as women. Pathetic gender attack right here
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.zekko said:Also, this article just talks about the face. Men are also fascinated with women's naked bodies. And there's no make up there.
I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.AttackFormation said:Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.
Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"zekko said:I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.
Or they may say bothAttackFormation said:Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.