El Payaso
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Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
your a piece of garbageEl Payaso said:Interesting article that I found: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/hollywood-loves-your-inferiority-complex-part-2
**** you *******AttackFormation said:I always thought the idiots who don't understand this deserve to be duped...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threadsKingBeef said:GOOD POST... Even I at times have to remind myself how average these women do look like when the makeup comes off. You can't put a female on a pedestal when she needs cosmetic help to make look better than what she really is. MEN DON'T NEED MAKEUP, thus we are the prize...
loldjgirl said:LOL this is why I love coming on this sites because of some of the helirious posts/threads
Men are blessed in that aspect that they require no make up, however you have the downfall of having a hairy face that you occasionaly have to shave unless your into this current trend of growing a beard which in my eyes I don't find attractive. Women in general don't need make up, however the media, society and men have made it so women have to wear it otherwise we don't look as "crash hot".....again another social pressure that we have to oblige by. Some girls may look prettier with make up but its really pointless to cake your face with it because its a fake image you put out and guys are going to see your make up less face in the morning after a bang anyway......hence why I don't wear a lot or bow to social pressure just to make more of an impression.
I think the underying problem here is men put themselves too much on a pedestal when they have just as many imperfections as women. Pathetic gender attack right here
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.zekko said:Also, this article just talks about the face. Men are also fascinated with women's naked bodies. And there's no make up there.
I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.AttackFormation said:Tit & @ss implants/pads, push up bras, tightening pants, heels for the @ss. No sir, nothing at all there.
Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"zekko said:I said NAKED bodies, so that removes the push up bras, pants, and heels. As for implants, I despise fake tits.
Or they may say bothAttackFormation said:Yeah, my point was more there's "body makeup" too. I don't think most men go "I bet that's just her pushup bra" over "wow, look at those t!ts"![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.