if you become beta , is it all over ?

[mackdaddy27]

Basically i was really alpha the first two weeks i knew. Then this past week i became beta starting giving her rides telling her i am free all the day for her and calling her back when she used to always call me. I realized shes pretty smart and and combined with the fact i used to not give on on damn about relationship whereas now i do.
So my question , is if you go from being alpha to beta , is it all over has she lost her attraction for me permanently or can i recover my becoming alpha and watching my frame ? Can incongruency be fixed or is it permanent?

 

[DoctorLW]

Basically i was really alpha the first two weeks i knew. Then this past week i became beta starting giving her rides telling her i am free all the day for her and calling her back when she used to always call me. I realized shes pretty smart and and combined with the fact i used to not give on on damn about relationship whereas now i do.
So my question , is if you go from being alpha to beta , is it all over has she lost her attraction for me permanently or can i recover my becoming alpha and watching my frame ? Can incongruency be fixed or is it permanent?

You haven't really provided enough information to answer this question, but it taks longer than a week to lose attraction. You realized you are losing control which is the first step, now just make moves to keep yourself under control.

One thing that helps when your brain starts losing control like this is to just convince yourself it's already over. If you can do that, it will suck for a couple days but you'll regain your senses and won't have to worry about emotion taking over.

 

[DJDamage]

The fact that you choose to label yourself either "alpha" or "beta" by trying to adjust your behaviour accordingly is the most crippling thing you can do to your game.

 

[Master Bates]

um, you don't switch between "alpha" and "beta" from week to week, whatever the hell that means.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Well if you feel yourself slipping back into AFCness. I suggest you start thinking about what you should be doing and what a Don Juan would be doing. Go search some posts on here and get back to your roots.