"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you are insulted by an attractive woman/her clique...

sambwoy

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...why does it hurt more than, say, a homeless man?
For that matter, why is it when MOST women insult you it hurts more than if a male buddy or stranger did it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alvafe

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why? because you care about what woman think about you, pretty much you are a slave to the hores around,

stop caring, hell you should never consider what people think of you, doing so make you lose too much time trying to please useless fools, and make you lose good opportunitys because you consider they will not like you doing it.

just ask yourself what you wanted to do but didn't do it because people didn't like you doing it?
my mom and dad never wanted me to learn how to fight (I did anyway) and even less when I just told then I would skydive, they still hate the idea of me even doing so and I didn't care if they did or not.

so again do what you consider will be helpfull or fun to you, as long no one is hurt you shouldn't give a damn,
 

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The only female you should worry what they think about you is your mom. Possibly wife but that's arguable!
 
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