why? because you care about what woman think about you, pretty much you are a slave to the hores around,
stop caring, hell you should never consider what people think of you, doing so make you lose too much time trying to please useless fools, and make you lose good opportunitys because you consider they will not like you doing it.
just ask yourself what you wanted to do but didn't do it because people didn't like you doing it?
my mom and dad never wanted me to learn how to fight (I did anyway) and even less when I just told then I would skydive, they still hate the idea of me even doing so and I didn't care if they did or not.
so again do what you consider will be helpfull or fun to you, as long no one is hurt you shouldn't give a damn,