"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you are insulted by an attractive woman/her clique...

sambwoy

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...why does it hurt more than, say, a homeless man?
For that matter, why is it when MOST women insult you it hurts more than if a male buddy or stranger did it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alvafe

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why? because you care about what woman think about you, pretty much you are a slave to the hores around,

stop caring, hell you should never consider what people think of you, doing so make you lose too much time trying to please useless fools, and make you lose good opportunitys because you consider they will not like you doing it.

just ask yourself what you wanted to do but didn't do it because people didn't like you doing it?
my mom and dad never wanted me to learn how to fight (I did anyway) and even less when I just told then I would skydive, they still hate the idea of me even doing so and I didn't care if they did or not.

so again do what you consider will be helpfull or fun to you, as long no one is hurt you shouldn't give a damn,
 

FairShake

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The only female you should worry what they think about you is your mom. Possibly wife but that's arguable!
 
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