"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
if you are FA, even if you are above average, is impossible to get a girlfriend
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tictac
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I bet not. You'd find other reasons to moan.
Maximus Rex
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Bruh, you DO LIVE IN SOME DEEP SOUTH STATE! It doesn't get more southern in the contiguous United States than Florida and your in the southern most big city in the country.
You could be in Seattle, the Bay Area, L.A., Chicago, Boston, New Orleans, Houston, NYC, Union City, N.J. D.C., Albuquerque, The Twin Cities, Sioux City, IA, Boise, ID, Billings, MT, or Tupelo, MS, you'd still have the same problems because you're wack.
nah, beause i had some success and girlfriends in south america
american bitches are stuckup
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
typical pua student who thinks that after reading some bibles, now he has super life experience and can mentor and school anyone
You are not even american, you live in a poverty unknown farmer county next to the sea, where women probably wear long skirts and are old fashioned
yeah, if you were to go to your little town, I'd be a sensation among women
Maximus Rex
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The real question, is why should I talk to them, and what do they have to offer, besides their fake looks (makeup)?
Why am I supposed to feel inferior to a female, when I'm probably better looking than 90% without makeup?
Why should I ask if I'm deserving of a female? while these sluts do nothing except doll up, sit and be pretty, and expect to be deserving of good well-off men?
You can't fool me, pal. I know you are British. You have that punchable British face.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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lol at posting a picture with your ID
It confirmed my "punchable face" comment, though
Tictac
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Yes. Leave troll boy alone. He isn't even any good at trolling.
His magic is recognizing nationality by facial structure.
LOL
we all know the kind of males and female specimens, england produces lmao
You are just a lost case, why even mind to open an account and bring all your weaknesses if you cant even take advice from anyone, your issues go even deeper buddy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maximus Rex
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LiveFreeX
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keep your sh1t offline asmodeus or people are going to come looking for you.
salinechow
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It was a mistake for you to discredit @Asmodeus. His advice is typically some of the best you can receive around here because of his understanding and intuitiveness of human psychology. As well as the flexible nature in which he can advise in PU and dating. Shutting down the opportunity to have an open dialogue with him demonstrates your lack of self awareness or desire to get well/or better, at the things you came here seeking.
When you rage quit, tough, yet potentially helpful offers of advisement, it clearly demonstrates the bigger picture of lack of confidence. Confidence is needed long before approaching a woman in a mall. It is needed to face yourself and the real you looking back and honestly assessing what your needs are.
We could help you with that.
Yet, publically telling a member of camaraderie, to basically f^ck off becasue you didnt like his input shows that you cannot yet see value, respect, or the slightest bit of the fortitude needed to participate in your own journey.
You came here asking questions and seeking input. Now, I have a question for you...
Why help you?
How are we encouraged to give you our value and time when you seem to not appreciate it?
Do you want us to hold your hand and rub your back and tell you everything will be okay?
Or, are you really seeking a change in frame to be more successfully well rounded than you ever dreamed?
Can you guess which one you'd receive here if you PARTICIPATE?
Wise up. Open up. Frame up. Man up.
We can teach you to tie your boots. Yet, you still gotta know to put your pants on first.
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Thank you @salinechow . I am here for myself, to cure boredom that I feel and to improve myself. This forum offers good advice on many things, not just getting women and I do not have too many problems getting women. In this forum however there is philosophy, health and fitness, and general fun discussion and banter. I am glad that what I post is of use to others. I would even help Latino here if he was willing, even though he has been rude to me and everyone else on this forum by trolling it. However, I think he has made a mistake by not being open to the advice, there is wisdom here that could be useful to him if he was even open to listening to it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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