"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if you are FA, even if you are above average, is impossible to get a girlfriend
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tictac
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I bet not. You'd find other reasons to moan.
Maximus Rex
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Bruh, you DO LIVE IN SOME DEEP SOUTH STATE! It doesn't get more southern in the contiguous United States than Florida and your in the southern most big city in the country.
You could be in Seattle, the Bay Area, L.A., Chicago, Boston, New Orleans, Houston, NYC, Union City, N.J. D.C., Albuquerque, The Twin Cities, Sioux City, IA, Boise, ID, Billings, MT, or Tupelo, MS, you'd still have the same problems because you're wack.
nah, beause i had some success and girlfriends in south america
american bitches are stuckup
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
typical pua student who thinks that after reading some bibles, now he has super life experience and can mentor and school anyone
You are not even american, you live in a poverty unknown farmer county next to the sea, where women probably wear long skirts and are old fashioned
yeah, if you were to go to your little town, I'd be a sensation among women
Maximus Rex
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The real question, is why should I talk to them, and what do they have to offer, besides their fake looks (makeup)?
Why am I supposed to feel inferior to a female, when I'm probably better looking than 90% without makeup?
Why should I ask if I'm deserving of a female? while these sluts do nothing except doll up, sit and be pretty, and expect to be deserving of good well-off men?
You can't fool me, pal. I know you are British. You have that punchable British face.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
foreverAFC
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lol at posting a picture with your ID
It confirmed my "punchable face" comment, though
Tictac
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Yes. Leave troll boy alone. He isn't even any good at trolling.
His magic is recognizing nationality by facial structure.
LOL
we all know the kind of males and female specimens, england produces lmao
You are just a lost case, why even mind to open an account and bring all your weaknesses if you cant even take advice from anyone, your issues go even deeper buddy.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Maximus Rex
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LiveFreeX
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keep your sh1t offline asmodeus or people are going to come looking for you.
salinechow
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It was a mistake for you to discredit @Asmodeus. His advice is typically some of the best you can receive around here because of his understanding and intuitiveness of human psychology. As well as the flexible nature in which he can advise in PU and dating. Shutting down the opportunity to have an open dialogue with him demonstrates your lack of self awareness or desire to get well/or better, at the things you came here seeking.
When you rage quit, tough, yet potentially helpful offers of advisement, it clearly demonstrates the bigger picture of lack of confidence. Confidence is needed long before approaching a woman in a mall. It is needed to face yourself and the real you looking back and honestly assessing what your needs are.
We could help you with that.
Yet, publically telling a member of camaraderie, to basically f^ck off becasue you didnt like his input shows that you cannot yet see value, respect, or the slightest bit of the fortitude needed to participate in your own journey.
You came here asking questions and seeking input. Now, I have a question for you...
Why help you?
How are we encouraged to give you our value and time when you seem to not appreciate it?
Do you want us to hold your hand and rub your back and tell you everything will be okay?
Or, are you really seeking a change in frame to be more successfully well rounded than you ever dreamed?
Can you guess which one you'd receive here if you PARTICIPATE?
Wise up. Open up. Frame up. Man up.
We can teach you to tie your boots. Yet, you still gotta know to put your pants on first.
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Thank you @salinechow . I am here for myself, to cure boredom that I feel and to improve myself. This forum offers good advice on many things, not just getting women and I do not have too many problems getting women. In this forum however there is philosophy, health and fitness, and general fun discussion and banter. I am glad that what I post is of use to others. I would even help Latino here if he was willing, even though he has been rude to me and everyone else on this forum by trolling it. However, I think he has made a mistake by not being open to the advice, there is wisdom here that could be useful to him if he was even open to listening to it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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