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Well, according to the manosphere, it's mainly the alpha guys who are pumping and dumping, so that's a minority.

Some guys like tall women, but I find shorter women sexy. It's very feminine, I guess that's why they're called "shawtys"?
 

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I keep saying if a guy is in decent shape he doesn't have to be a bodybuilder you're already ahead of 60%-70% of men depending on where you live.

Some guys make women sound like it's a quest to Mordor it's not, just be a well put together guy and have a crisp mouthpiece and you pulling something. Most guys don't have that hence they struggle
 

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I keep saying if a guy is in decent shape he doesn't have to be a bodybuilder you're already ahead of 60%-70% of men depending on where you live.

Some guys make women sound like it's a quest to Mordor it's not, just be a well put together guy and have a crisp mouthpiece and you pulling something. Most guys don't have that hence they struggle
I think a lot of single, childless men under 40 who are reasonably put together already fall into that “ahead of the pack” category. The real issue, in my opinion, isn’t necessarily about their looks or presentation it is mainly how they handle interest from women.

A lot of guys, when they get IOIs or realize a woman is into them, become overly relationship-focused too quickly. It’s like they want to lock her down and end up restricting her sense of freedom. Speaking from my own experience, this was something I struggled with before I understood the value of dating multiple women at the same time and not fixating on just one too soon.

Of course, there are also men who are super aloof and still face challenges with women, so it is not just one-size-fits-all. In some ways, the issue does come back to how men approach these dynamics.
 

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Well, according to the manosphere, it's mainly the alpha guys who are pumping and dumping, so that's a minority.

Some guys like tall women, but I find shorter women sexy. It's very feminine, I guess that's why they're called "shawtys"?
Their physique may be feminine, but many short women have small dog complexes and are loud, feisty and "sassy" as phuck.
 

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Well, according to the manosphere, it's mainly the alpha guys who are pumping and dumping, so that's a minority.
Whst about the Chad & Tyrone lites settling for 4s and 5s because the alphas & Chads are hogging 6s & above.
 

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I think a lot of single, childless men under 40 who are reasonably put together already fall into that “ahead of the pack” category. The real issue, in my opinion, isn’t necessarily about their looks or presentation it is mainly how they handle interest from women.

A lot of guys, when they get IOIs or realize a woman is into them, become overly relationship-focused too quickly. It’s like they want to lock her down and end up restricting her sense of freedom. Speaking from my own experience, this was something I struggled with before I understood the value of dating multiple women at the same time and not fixating on just one too soon.

Of course, there are also men who are super aloof and still face challenges with women, so it is not just one-size-fits-all. In some ways, the issue does come back to how men approach these dynamics.
You're not wrong but it's more complex there a lot of socially stunted young men, and also out-of-shape young men. I have seen guy's in their 20s that have beer bellies like men in their 50's. I know on this forum we like to talk a lot about how women are becoming increasingly fat now a days but a lot of men are not in the best of shape either

Like I said it's a multi-faceted complex issue
 

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Whst about the Chad & Tyrone lites settling for 4s and 5s because the alphas & Chads are hogging 6s & above.
Are the lites low level alphas or high level betas? Either way, they're still a minority. Anyway, I don't think I'm at the top of the food chain, but I wouldn't mess around with 4s or 5s.
 

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So explain these NBA & NFL guys knocking up fat women?
It's a similar thing with ultra-wealthy guys. They are too immersed in their professions to learn game and/or vet women properly. Or anything red pill imo.
 

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Are the lites low level alphas or high level betas? Either way, they're still a minority. Anyway, I don't think I'm at the top of the food chain, but I wouldn't mess around with 4s or 5s.
are you really going to call a 8/10 lawyer with 10%bf a beta though? I’m glad you aren’t but the majority of men aren’t just messing around but making sweet love to 4s and 5s.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Betas aren't pumping and dumping
Betas typically don't pump & dump because that's not a well regarded thing in the blue pill ideology.

Betas also don't have what it takes to attract enough women to get abundance.
 

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are you really going to call a 8/10 lawyer with 10%bf a beta though? I’m glad you aren’t but the majority of men aren’t just messing around but making sweet love to 4s and 5s.
Well, I suppose it probably depends on how you define a 4 or 5. This is how I define a 5: A 5 is a woman you might look and think "Well, maybe if I was horny enough... nah." A 6 is doable, might be described as cute.

As for the lawyer, this is the first time I've heard any mention of body fat percentage. A low level alpha or a high level beta are going to have their choices. Might not be the leader of the pack, but the #2 guy, or considered indispensable to the group. I don't think being an alpha is necessarily about looks either.
 

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Betas typically don't pump & dump because that's not a well regarded thing in the blue pill ideology.

Betas also don't have what it takes to attract enough women to get abundance.
These terms stemming from the pre 2008 recession need to be retiree because they do not apply to our world today. Beta, alpha, pump and dump. Like i have yet to hear a good definition of an alpha male other than a disguised inferiority complex exhuming from lower status men.
 

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Well, I suppose it probably depends on how you define a 4 or 5. This is how I define a 5: A 5 is a woman you might look and think "Well, maybe if I was horny enough... nah." A 6 is doable, might be described as cute.
Well this guy is with a girl I wouldn’t hit if I was drunk and in a decade long dry spell lol. I guess she’s a 3-4 lol.
 

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