If she playing with me?

[Jetleg]

I met this girl which is a fellow student, so we see each other alot.
We had sex couple of times, and had a good time together, but we are not in a relationship (we never talked about it). until couple weeks ago she used to text me and basically "chase" me everywhere, smiling at me randomly and such.

i noticed that she stopped doing that, and started talking to another student pretty often, i thought they were just friends but couple of a days ago i noticed she really flirts with him (teasing him, touching him...) even when i'm around. In fact when he is around she basically ignores me totally, she doesnt even look at me.

Tomorrow i meet with her, and we probably gonna end up having sex, the thing is, i dont want her to be with another guy, atleast not untill we clear up what are we, but i dont want to bring it up because she is not my girlfriend, what should i do?

 

[Uncharted]

Stop being so concerned. Are you talking to other girls? If not you should. Then this girl would not mean as much as she does to you.

 

[Jetleg]

Stop being so concerned. Are you talking to other girls? If not you should. Then this girl would not mean as much as she does to you.

I have plently of other girls, im not needy, but i guess because i see her everyday its really disturbes me , its like she is doing it on purpose... i guess im just going to ignore her.

 

[RangerMIke]

Women control relationships nothing a man can DIRECTLY do to make her want exclusivity other than just being a great guy, focusing on yourself, being the best you can be and happy with yourself.

Just go on dates and try to have fun... it's going to happen then it will happen. Women are like weather, nothing you can do about it but dress appropriately.

 

[Jetleg]

Ruler you are so right, i showed her disinterest the whole time and used to flake her alot, i guess maybe because i showed SOME interest it got her turned ouf a bit. thanks for the tip guys!

 

[Jetleg]

Sorry for the double post, she flaked me just one hour before the date, she already did it last week. i know she works night and we also have ALOT to study. (i know that because we study together).

In both times i told her its no biggie, we'll find another time. at that point im pretty sure something is wrong, doesnt have to be another guy i guess.

should pull back? or maybe just ignore her? i've never been in a situation where i have to see the girl almost everyday, otherwise i wouldnt mind.