“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If she playing with me?

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I met this girl which is a fellow student, so we see each other alot.
We had sex couple of times, and had a good time together, but we are not in a relationship (we never talked about it). until couple weeks ago she used to text me and basically "chase" me everywhere, smiling at me randomly and such.

i noticed that she stopped doing that, and started talking to another student pretty often, i thought they were just friends but couple of a days ago i noticed she really flirts with him (teasing him, touching him...) even when i'm around. In fact when he is around she basically ignores me totally, she doesnt even look at me.

Tomorrow i meet with her, and we probably gonna end up having sex, the thing is, i dont want her to be with another guy, atleast not untill we clear up what are we, but i dont want to bring it up because she is not my girlfriend, what should i do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stop being so concerned. Are you talking to other girls? If not you should. Then this girl would not mean as much as she does to you.
 
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Uncharted said:
Stop being so concerned. Are you talking to other girls? If not you should. Then this girl would not mean as much as she does to you.
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I have plently of other girls, im not needy, but i guess because i see her everyday its really disturbes me , its like she is doing it on purpose... i guess im just going to ignore her.
 
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Women control relationships nothing a man can DIRECTLY do to make her want exclusivity other than just being a great guy, focusing on yourself, being the best you can be and happy with yourself.

Just go on dates and try to have fun... it's going to happen then it will happen. Women are like weather, nothing you can do about it but dress appropriately.
 
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Ruler you are so right, i showed her disinterest the whole time and used to flake her alot, i guess maybe because i showed SOME interest it got her turned ouf a bit. thanks for the tip guys!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry for the double post, she flaked me just one hour before the date, she already did it last week. i know she works night and we also have ALOT to study. (i know that because we study together).

In both times i told her its no biggie, we'll find another time. at that point im pretty sure something is wrong, doesnt have to be another guy i guess.

should pull back? or maybe just ignore her? i've never been in a situation where i have to see the girl almost everyday, otherwise i wouldnt mind.
 
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