"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she playing with me?

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I met this girl which is a fellow student, so we see each other alot.
We had sex couple of times, and had a good time together, but we are not in a relationship (we never talked about it). until couple weeks ago she used to text me and basically "chase" me everywhere, smiling at me randomly and such.

i noticed that she stopped doing that, and started talking to another student pretty often, i thought they were just friends but couple of a days ago i noticed she really flirts with him (teasing him, touching him...) even when i'm around. In fact when he is around she basically ignores me totally, she doesnt even look at me.

Tomorrow i meet with her, and we probably gonna end up having sex, the thing is, i dont want her to be with another guy, atleast not untill we clear up what are we, but i dont want to bring it up because she is not my girlfriend, what should i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stop being so concerned. Are you talking to other girls? If not you should. Then this girl would not mean as much as she does to you.
 
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Uncharted said:
Stop being so concerned. Are you talking to other girls? If not you should. Then this girl would not mean as much as she does to you.
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I have plently of other girls, im not needy, but i guess because i see her everyday its really disturbes me , its like she is doing it on purpose... i guess im just going to ignore her.
 
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Women control relationships nothing a man can DIRECTLY do to make her want exclusivity other than just being a great guy, focusing on yourself, being the best you can be and happy with yourself.

Just go on dates and try to have fun... it's going to happen then it will happen. Women are like weather, nothing you can do about it but dress appropriately.
 
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Ruler you are so right, i showed her disinterest the whole time and used to flake her alot, i guess maybe because i showed SOME interest it got her turned ouf a bit. thanks for the tip guys!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sorry for the double post, she flaked me just one hour before the date, she already did it last week. i know she works night and we also have ALOT to study. (i know that because we study together).

In both times i told her its no biggie, we'll find another time. at that point im pretty sure something is wrong, doesnt have to be another guy i guess.

should pull back? or maybe just ignore her? i've never been in a situation where i have to see the girl almost everyday, otherwise i wouldnt mind.
 
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