Ringleader41
Senior Don Juan
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Think about this from now on
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Geniuskhan said:Personally I'd just charge it to the game..
This b!tch is an international star(of crappy movies). She has her own money.bigneil said:What would a beautiful girl in her early 20's want with a 41 year old man?? She must have only wanted his money!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
“This momentary indiscretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I'm so sorry."
REALLY???"Kristen really loves Rob more than anything," the insider said. "He's all that matters to her right now."
I want to see how the media handles this. Typically when it's the female who cheats they come up with all sorts of ways to rationalize it. "According to sources...the couple were having problems beforehand," "they seemed to be falling out of love," etc etc, something about she wasn't getting the love she needed so she went looking for it elsewhere and feel in love with someone else.spang said:her groveling public apology....
REALLY???
im sure the media is exaggerating and sensationalizing it like they always do. but damn she must be embarrassed now. i hope robert pattinson comes to his senses and just starts banging her friends.
Alvafe said:I say in this case is more, she wanted to keep working as a actress, she is not good at it, the dude he is the most desired male right now? yes but because of his films not because what he is, also keep in mind she worked on the film, so pretty much she don't have the same awe the teens girls have about him.
only thing now we can know and care is he have to dump the *****, and never ever get together with here again, only way to save him of his shame and us from a future extra annoyance with woman.
also in other note, all the jokes came from it is too good to let it pass![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You deserve a medal for this post xDBurroughs said:Sometimes women trip and fall on a man's d!ck and much to their surprise its not the man they 'love' then they act 'surprised' and say 'hey how did that d!ck get there?!' :crackup::crackup: :yes: :crackup:
spang said:her groveling public apology....
REALLY???
im sure the media is exaggerating and sensationalizing it like they always do. but damn she must be embarrassed now. i hope robert pattinson comes to his senses and just starts banging her friends.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.