Ringleader41
Senior Don Juan
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Think about this from now on
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Geniuskhan said:Personally I'd just charge it to the game..
This b!tch is an international star(of crappy movies). She has her own money.bigneil said:What would a beautiful girl in her early 20's want with a 41 year old man?? She must have only wanted his money!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
“This momentary indiscretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I'm so sorry."
REALLY???"Kristen really loves Rob more than anything," the insider said. "He's all that matters to her right now."
I want to see how the media handles this. Typically when it's the female who cheats they come up with all sorts of ways to rationalize it. "According to sources...the couple were having problems beforehand," "they seemed to be falling out of love," etc etc, something about she wasn't getting the love she needed so she went looking for it elsewhere and feel in love with someone else.spang said:her groveling public apology....
REALLY???
im sure the media is exaggerating and sensationalizing it like they always do. but damn she must be embarrassed now. i hope robert pattinson comes to his senses and just starts banging her friends.
Alvafe said:I say in this case is more, she wanted to keep working as a actress, she is not good at it, the dude he is the most desired male right now? yes but because of his films not because what he is, also keep in mind she worked on the film, so pretty much she don't have the same awe the teens girls have about him.
only thing now we can know and care is he have to dump the *****, and never ever get together with here again, only way to save him of his shame and us from a future extra annoyance with woman.
also in other note, all the jokes came from it is too good to let it pass![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You deserve a medal for this post xDBurroughs said:Sometimes women trip and fall on a man's d!ck and much to their surprise its not the man they 'love' then they act 'surprised' and say 'hey how did that d!ck get there?!' :crackup::crackup: :yes: :crackup:
spang said:her groveling public apology....
REALLY???
im sure the media is exaggerating and sensationalizing it like they always do. but damn she must be embarrassed now. i hope robert pattinson comes to his senses and just starts banging her friends.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.