Viper
Banned
How come I see so many people doing it? Seriously, alot of girls do it, even guys who get alot of chicks do it sometimes.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If crossing your arms is closed posture...
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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DumpaLumpagus
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Well, this is a very interesting observation of body-language indeed. It appears as if these people are closed, in some way, and do not wish to be open. I believe if these people wished to be open, they would unfold their arms, and maybe even face the fronts of their wrists ******ds (a non-verbal signal of openness).
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
Orrrr they are feeling cold
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Or they find it to be a very comfortable position.
Ever accomplished something big, and felt the need to stand back, cross your arms, and admire your work?
When reading body language you shouldn't base your opinions on their mood on one specific bodily action.
Ever accomplished something big, and felt the need to stand back, cross your arms, and admire your work?
When reading body language you shouldn't base your opinions on their mood on one specific bodily action.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
I feel comfortable with my arms crossed.. Doesn't mean I'm not open to talking, I just feel comfortable because I don't know what else to do with my arms.
I'm making an effort to change that though and do it less..
I'm making an effort to change that though and do it less..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
brucevangeorge
Banned
Who cares?
Just do your thing.
Just do your thing.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
Bottom Line
Crossed arms is bad body language..
Crossed arms is bad body language..
It is usually a very negative sign, especially if it's your first interaction with this person.
However, I've had women fold their arms around me if I'm not paying them enough attention or if they're in a mood with me over something else. It can mean they're sulking in other words.
However, I've had women fold their arms around me if I'm not paying them enough attention or if they're in a mood with me over something else. It can mean they're sulking in other words.
My father used to always cross his arms and I guess that's where I got the idea of it being comfortable.
I tried offsetting this by holding my hands at my waist (you know, the "domination" display where there's almost a 90 degree angle in your arm and your elbows point out) but this probably makes it look like you either have some superiority complex/are impatient so I'm not sure if this is a good idea either.
I wish I had the patience to stand still with my arms down by my sides..but it just gets f*ckin annoying after a while you know? Then I start doing stupid sh!t like putting my hands in my pockets which probably looks even worse.
I have started making an effort to cross my arms less often but it still comes pretty natural.
I tried offsetting this by holding my hands at my waist (you know, the "domination" display where there's almost a 90 degree angle in your arm and your elbows point out) but this probably makes it look like you either have some superiority complex/are impatient so I'm not sure if this is a good idea either.
I wish I had the patience to stand still with my arms down by my sides..but it just gets f*ckin annoying after a while you know? Then I start doing stupid sh!t like putting my hands in my pockets which probably looks even worse.
I have started making an effort to cross my arms less often but it still comes pretty natural.