“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If a woman gives friction or hesitation, CUT HER OFF!

jhonny9546

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because you tend to overlook the issue
We all experience a different reality based on what and where we live.
So maybe that actually appear dramatic to you, but it's actually "real facts" or "how life it's here for real"
 

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Well Jhonnie,
I know a few Italian Women,seem like most others one meets,the only exceptional thing is their Mothers taught them to cook!
I didn't know they had crocs in Italy
 

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Stickied for a while because guys really need to not waste time on disinterested women. Tell me what I got wrong.
Nah, you are 100 % right imo.

Yet iirc there still seems to ne this sentiment that there are EXCEPTIONS ti this golden rule...and that's where men lose.

A man should have a personal law. Rules set in stone. That means it shouldn't matter if she is an hb2 or hb10.

My experience showed me that as soon as you try to make exceptions, you're losing. The power dynamic shifts in HER favor, and makes you as a man look weak. Women can sense you want it too bad, which most of time means you have no other options.
 

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It’s 2026. She has men on the gram, sms, and every other communication platform hitting her up.

Treat it like sales, keep hitting up your leads periodically because eventually they may bite.

Automate it if you have to…
 

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It’s 2026. She has men on the gram, sms, and every other communication platform hitting her up.

Treat it like sales, keep hitting up your leads periodically because eventually they may bite.

Automate it if you have to…
A wise salesman wastes no time on weak leads, he courts only the golden ones.

Respect your time and EFFORt because someone who wants you will respect your time and effort!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This advice is a bit dated and won't work for most men. Some of my best lays, and my current girl, we're both acquired after a bit of resistance.

Once you start working in sales, you begin to understand these things much better.
 

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This advice is a bit dated and won't work for most men. Some of my best lays, and my current girl, we're both acquired after a bit of resistance.

Once you start working in sales, you begin to understand these things much better.
Fair enough.

However, from personal experience, women who showed low interest off the bat very rarely came around. I’ve only seen it work maybe 3% of the time(personally), and even in those rare cases it never actually went anywhere meaningful.

A top salesman doesn’t waste time chasing lukewarm leads. He has a full pipeline, so if a prospect goes cold he’s completely unfazed he just moves on to the next one. Pursuing a woman who doesn’t respond with real interest right away is a dummy mission. It burns your time and energy while killing your momentum.

Abundance mixed with indifference is what truly gets you the type of women who put in effort off the bat.
 

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This advice is a bit dated and won't work for most men. Some of my best lays, and my current girl, we're both acquired after a bit of resistance.
I've definitely done it before. I just brushed off the resistance, stayed cool and fun, and eventually they warmed up to the idea.
 

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One thing you gotta keep in mind is how many damn songs that are popular today have the heartbreak victim/woe is me mentality in the lyrics. It's the vast majority of them and it didn't used to be like this.

Impressionable chicks hear these and it subconsciously puts them on the defensive. Plus the fact many of them are phucked out anyway.
 

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This advice is a bit dated and won't work for most men. Some of my best lays, and my current girl, we're both acquired after a bit of resistance.

Once you start working in sales, you begin to understand these things much better.
By resistance, do you mean women flaking on a date vs resistance on a date/while with you? If the former, are you saying that he should basically keep chasing her even if she flaked on a date with him once? Or do you purely mean resistance when she is already with you somewhere?
'Some of my best lays, and my current girl, we're both acquired after a bit of resistance.' - how, how strongly and how long did they 'hesitate' before accepting your advances?
 
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