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if a girl refuses you, does it motivate ?

macking

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I think most of the guys that are known as "shy" with the girls the only reason that they don't aproach is the FEAR OF THE REFUSE. For example if you go in a club and aproach a girl, if it dosn't work what would you do? Would you go to another girls, or just sit and "cry" about that? I heard that most of the PU artists suggest you that if a girl refuse you, that should motivate you? Me, personally, never had the feeling of the refuse ('cause I didn't aproach a lot) but I think I wouldn't fill bad about it. But I really don't know what would I do after that? Do you guys have any idea?:wave:
 

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Lol think like this . If girls let everyone to talk to them they would be bored because everyone would BS (bullsh!t) them all night .

Thats why they have to shut them down every guy .It becomes routine to shut down peoples. But since we are here we know some thinks and we know how to
put down they SHIELD and continue with routines .

And rejection is only exercise . It helps you figure out what you've done wrong .

In the second you get rejected the only thing you need to do is to SMILE :D , say PEACE or some BS and continue on other set :D .

Its fun :D.
 

sam3083

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Adopt the mindset of, 'any girl who rejects is making a big mistake'.

You are a great guy and any girl who doesn't even give you a chance is going to regret it one day.

A girl who rejects me or refuses even my friendship, is going to regret that moment for the rest of her life. She'll be telling people years from now how I once tried to pick her up.
 

zinc64

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macking said:
I think most of the guys that are known as "shy" with the girls the only reason that they don't aproach is the FEAR OF THE REFUSE. For example if you go in a club and aproach a girl, if it dosn't work what would you do? Would you go to another girls, or just sit and "cry" about that? I heard that most of the PU artists suggest you that if a girl refuse you, that should motivate you? Me, personally, never had the feeling of the refuse ('cause I didn't aproach a lot) but I think I wouldn't fill bad about it. But I really don't know what would I do after that? Do you guys have any idea?:wave:

It motivates the hell out of me. If I get rejected several times, then I can't stop. I just have to find a glint of success. Otherwise, I will go crazy.
 

sam3083

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following that thought, a guy gave me this advice: every girl in the world likes you, it's your job to make them realize that
Love it. great stuff!
 

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rejection doen't necessarily motivate but teach. i've overthought all my approaches, there hasn't been too many, but i learn from them.
 
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